Successful Women Seminar speaker shares her secrets

Originally published in the Central Florida Future: http://www.centralfloridafuture.com/news/successful-women-seminar-speaker-shares-her-secrets-1.2767856#.UF9jTaWa_6w.twitter

Dr. Maria Santana’s discussion Tuesday for UCF’s Women’s Research Center’s third Successful Women Seminar was nothing short of colorful.

A crowd of about 50 faculty and students chuckled in the Cape Florida Ballroom as the associate professor and director of UCF’s women’s studies program quipped about motherhood, academia and advocacy. 

According to the director of the Women’s Research Center, Linda Walters, the mission of the series is to “make women faculty successful.”

“We want them to see what women are doing who’ve made it through the academic process of getting tenure and getting promoted,” said Walters. 

But beyond narratives of tenure or tales of her life as a writer and researcher, Dr. Santana offered advice that was welcomed by undergraduates and their instructors.

“You have to take care of yourself; there’s only one of us in the world,” Santana said.

According to Santana, it’s important for individuals to know their limits and to be aware of the challenges they face.

She notes that one of her highest fences to climb over was simply asking for help. 

“[I thought,] if I ask for advice, I look weak, not prepared…I thought I had to do it all,” Santana said. “But that’s not true. There’s no crime in asking for help, or asking for advice.”

Santana fears that if mothers don’t have extra hands to help drive their children home from baseball practices, or scholars don’t have different sets of eyes to scrutinize their research, they’d be spreading themselves too thin to relish life. 

Hoping to ward off such deprivation, Santana shared two of her richest secrets: timing and protecting weekends.

“I sat down with a timer to see how much was [in] an hour one day… an hour is very long,” Santana said. “If we were to set a timer to finish writing that paper for publication, I’m pretty sure [we’d] finish it.”

She also encourages everyone to delight in their weekends by protecting them. She leaves work for the weekdays and brings in memories every weekend with friends, family and her dearest organizations. 

“I want to live; it’s my life, [and] I only have one,” Santana said. 

However, with many students waiting tables to pay for college tuition and instructors working more than one job to meet their monthly bills, Santana understands that protecting weekends may not be practical for some. But she still suggests that everyone give himself or herself an hour a day to do something they’re fond of.

“A whole hour for you…watching a movie, doing your hair, napping, talking to your mom on the phone, having sex,” Santana said. “There’s 24 [of them]. I’m only asking for one.”

Senior psychology and interdisciplinary studies major Latoya Rattery was keen on Santana’s “secrets.”

“I’m going to try the one hour thing,” Rattery said. “With me, I will start something [and then] work on something else, so that was really good. I like her secrets.”

For assistant professor of sociology Amanda Koontz, Santana’s tips were refreshing. 

“It’s true, if you start helping yourself then you can start helping others better, and it’s nice again to have a reminder of that,” Koontz said. 

The Successful Women Seminar Series, which began in the spring, takes place twice a semester. Professor of clinical psychology and director of UCF’s doctoral program in clinical psychology Dr. Deborah C. Beidel will speak for the series’ fourth presentation Oct. 30.

History professor discusses Trayvon Martin case, end of civil rights movement

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Dr. Vibert White offered nods and handshakes as he entered into a crowded room in the Student Union Tuesday for a lecture on the Trayvon Martin case. Students and faculty filled chairs while others stood along the back of the room to hear Dr. White compare how the handling of the case is contributing to the demise of the Civil Rights Movement.

Through a series of slideshows, videos and impassioned narratives, Dr. White compared the civil rights rallies that followed the death of 17-year-old Martin to those that composed U.S. neighborhoods throughout the 1960s.

Trailing his examination, Dr. White, an associate professor inUCF’s history department, found one consequential feature missing from the recent demonstrations in Sanford—momentum.

“I took my class to the rally…[and there were] 200 people in [Allen Chapel], but there were over 2,000 young people outside. They weren’t listening to what Al and Jessie and the newscasters had to say. They wanted momentum,” White said.

But according to Dr. White, they didn’t get that kind of protest. Similar to the peacemakers who interjected themselves in the Civil Rights demonstrations of Martin Luther King Jr. and Malcolm X, Sanford had its own peacemakers to teach leaders how to demonstrate.

“They developed the objective, the momentum and the direction of the movement,” White said. “But how can a movement be by the people if it’s being paid for by the oppressors?”

According to Dr. White, this paradigm only leaves room for what he calls a “milk toast” civil rights movement, or one that shuts down the comments made by adamant African-American leaders like Angela Davis and Louis Farrakhan.

“The Al Sharpton you saw [in the 1960s] was a young, fired-up minister-activist…who would take up any cause of plight in the African community,” White said. “That Al Sharpton is not the one that came [to Sanford]. The one that came is the one who works for MSNBC, the one who really is now no more than a spokesperson for the Democratic party, the one who MSNBC just recently made a millionaire. So he speaks on a moderate tone, a conditioned tone.”

This idea of former radical leaders retaining restrained voices appealed to freshman Jennelle Mendes.

“I’m always interested to hear what people have to say about the Trayvon Martin case because there’s always so many different views of it,” the event management major said. “Hearing some things that I haven’t personally thought of before such as Jesse Jackson and how he went from being more radical to simmering down…was nice to hear about.”

Junior psychology major Meghan Bejarano was shocked to hear about the Civil Rights leaders’ newly controlled approaches.

“[Dr. White] viewed them as being conditioned and being a product of capitalism rather than like true leaders,” Bejarano said. “I was surprised to hear about his perspective.”

Equipping students like Bejarano and Mendes with the information needed to examine the social underpinnings of the case and the accompanying protests is particularly why Dr. White led the lecture. 

“I saw that the whole Trayvon Martin case has become a side issue now,” White said. “It is no longer on the front pages of the media, no longer discussed within black circles or white circles. Since there has not been any real resolution, it should be something that we should continue to talk about, debate and analyze because…this is a reflection of our own society and who we are as a people.”

 

Lauren DeSantis: The Cook of the Capital

 

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Originally published in the DC Spotlight: http://www.dcspotlight.com/events-entertainment/bon-appetit/top-10-8-lauren-desantis-the-cook-of-the-capital/

Daytime attorney and nighttime blogger, Lauren DeSantis is the host of one of Washington D.C.’s most celebrated food shows. “Capital Cooking,” which takes its viewers on a culinary expedition to capital cities around the world, offers its audience exclusive recipes for unique cultural dishes.

The 30-year-old food-lover grew passionate about cooking as a law student at Duke University. Miles from home, DeSantis could no longer gobble down her mother’s traditional Italian meals, but she wasn’t ready to trade in mouthwatering cuisines for dormitory dishes.

“I started learning recipes and trying to make more simple dishes,” DeSantis said. “From there I kept learning more about food. I always had dinner parties in law school [and] I’d make all my roommates dinner.”

DeSantis, who snagged a job as a lawyer in the nation’s capital after graduate school, didn’t take cooking seriously until she relocated.

“Everyone [I] met were lawyers. I wasn’t used to that. I needed to meet other people and be creative and that’s how I originally started the show and did something with the cooking,” said DeSantis. Now “I have so many friends outside of law. I leave work and don’t have to talk about work.”

Her career as a lawyer, however, has been beneficial. In many ways, her experience as an attorney has helped DeSantis become a better host and producer.

“I make my money being a lawyer,” DeSantis said. “A lot of my legal skills help … with negotiating contracts with TV networks and setting up the company. Filming on the show translates to the courtroom [like] having to think on the spot when a judge asks a question. Some of the skills go hand in hand.”

The St. Louis native may have left the Gateway Arch when she moved to Washington D.C. in 2006, but she didn’t abandon the Midwest’s delectable treats. In DeSantis’ first episode, “Meet Me in St. Louis,” she cooked renowned Midwestern meals like chicken tetrazzini and toasted ravioli, while preparing a gooey butter cake and the famed St. Louis Cardinals cocktail.

Four years after the show’s March 2008 debut, DeSantis started taking “Capital Cooking” all around the globe.

“We just got back from Taiwan. That was a really interesting experience. We learned all about Taiwanese cuisine and Chinese cuisine. It was a really unique place. We tried a variety of food [including] Japanese food … It was almost like getting to do a trip in all those places, but all in one place,” said DeSantis. “It was nice because I got to meet with the ambassadors and local food writers and get a look at the seriousness of the people—they’re really serious about their food. Everyone is talking about food. It’s kind of fun [and] it reminds me of D.C. because you can find a lot of that around here.”

DeSantis and her crew will take their next trip in August, when “Capital Cooking” visits Sweden.

“Sweden and all of the Nordic countries are known for a lot of heavy food, but all of the Nordic countries got together and formed a Nordic council on food and … put in an effort to create a New Nordic, so now you can find all of this amazing stuff,” DeSantis said. “They’re using their local ingredients and … being very artful. [Their] plates look like a work of art when they come to your table. It’s a unique presentation [that’s] totally different from Taiwan.”

Just one month later, DeSantis and her team will pack their bags once again to learn about the varied flavors and colorful decorations of Mexican cuisines. “The U.S. has a dated version of what Mexican food is,” DeSantis said. “So it’ll be an interesting show of what real Mexican food is.”

Since 2011, when “Capital Cooking” started taking its cameras across seas, DeSantis has only been able to embark on a few trips a year. Each visit she makes out of the United States is time away from her job as a lawyer, and because filming takes about 10 days, DeSantis can only afford to take three or four trips a year.

As a full-time lawyer who has written her own cookbook, teaches private and group cooking classes, blogs daily and hosts and produces her own show, time is something that’s often not on DeSantis’ side. Friend and host of hyper-local news and lifestyle program “DC on Heels,” Vanessa Cammozi, jokes that DeSantis is the modern day Superwoman.

“I don’t even see how she’s doing it all. She writes the show, goes to events, cooks and hosts dinner and supper parties—I don’t know if she has 48 hours in her one day,” Cammozi said. “I think that she just gets it and understands it … The crazy thing is that she’s never one of those people that’s so stressed out and tired. She does it all—I literally call her Superwoman.”

To DeSantis, however, sometimes juggling two careers is overwhelming.

“Sometimes it catches up to me. I get exhausted [and] feel worn down … When I get like that I try to take a break. I’m really passionate about [“Capital Cooking”]—I love it. So when I get to the point when I don’t feel like that, I take a step back. I don’t want it to become an obligation; I always want it to be fun.”

“Capital Cooking” airs on WETA Create every Friday at 7:00 p.m. and Saturday at 1:00 a.m. and 4:30 p.m. Viewers can watch clips of the show and read DeSantis’ food blog at http://capitalcookingshow.blogspot.com/.

 

 

Linda Mahoney: Giving Harriet Tubman a home in the Capitol Building

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Originally published in the DC Spotlight: http://www.dcspotlight.com/features/limelight/top-10-7-linda-mahoney-giving-harriet-tubman-a-home-in-the-capitol-building/

The Swinging Sixties was a decade of extremes that altered the lives of women and girls throughout the United States. As a high school student, Linda Mahoney had a front-row seat to the cultural changes taking place. She remembers feminists protesting against domestic violence and sexual harassment. She recalls the growing dissatisfaction among women regarding gender disparities in education, occupations, and salary. Now, more than four decades later, Mahoney believes that the ideals of those second-wave feminists have yet to be realized entirely.

“From early on I could see … the expectations were just different, and in a lot of ways, I’m not sure if they have changed much over the years,” said Mahoney.

Mahoney, a former middle school English teacher, moved from Arizona to Washington, D.C., in 1989 to study law at American University. She now lives in Silver Spring, MD, and is a senior legal assistant at the “Big Four” accounting firm Ernst & Young. However, even as a full-time employee for one of the largest professional service firms in the world, Mahoney makes it a priority to fight for a cause that she believes has insidiously carried over into the 21st century.

At 65 years old, Mahoney is the president of Maryland’s chapter of the National Organization for Women (NOW), a position she’s held for three years. NOW, the largest feminist organization in the United States, was founded in Washington, D.C., when Mahoney was only 19.

“NOW is still around and we’re having a resurgence as people are able to assess what sort of constraints are being placed upon women,” said Mahoney. “There’s still a need for NOW. Until women have full equality and full equal treatment, there will be a need.”

 To Mahoney, presenting young girls with strong, smart, and powerful women to look up to is just one of the needs that NOW can fulfill. Her and Maryland NOW’s Harriet Tubman Statue Project is an attempt to do just that.

In 2000, Congress passed a law allowing states to rotate and trade the two statues representing them in the U.S. Capitol’s Statuary Hall. Mahoney, Maryland NOW, and a slew of various other progressive organizations joined forces in 2011 in an unsuccessful attempt to place Maryland-born abolitionist and humanitarian Harriet Tubman in the “Old Hall of the House.”

“We were concerned as an organization that girls and woman should have role models [and] heroes to aspire to. We settled on Harriet Tubman as one of the many stars in the Maryland constellation of women heroes,” Mahoney said.

According to the president of Maryland’s Women’s Legislative Caucus, Del. Susan Lee (D-Montgomery), Tubman is an ideal choice to represent Maryland’s populace.

“For myself, a woman of color …  I thought it was so important that we have a statue of an African-American hero. She made such an enormous contribution, not just to Maryland, but to our country,” said Del. Lee. “She got slaves out, she was a union spy, a nurse, and after the Civil War, she fought for women’s rights. To me, that’s a sterling role model for girls and women.”

However, in order for Tubman’s statue to be housed in Statuary Hall, it would have to replace one of the two men currently representing Maryland, Charles Carroll or John Hanson. Carroll was a senator for Maryland and the only Catholic signatory of the Declaration of Independence; John Hanson was a Maryland native and president of the Continental Congress under the Articles of Confederation.

Mahoney believes that because “Marylanders don’t know what [of] significance [Hanson] has done” and because the former slave-owner’s “representation has been blown out of proportion to his achievement,” Tubman should have replaced his statue.

However, Senate President Thomas V. “Mike” Miller Jr. saw things through a very different lens. Mahoney remembers his visit to a women’s legislator reception.

“The first thing out of his mouth after, ‘Hello, I’m Mike Miller’ was, ‘We are not moving John Hanson,’” Mahoney recalled.

Unfortunately for Mahoney and all of the Harriet Tubman Statue Project’s supporters, Miller seemed to be correct. However, instead of giving up on the project altogether, Mahoney pressed on and continued organizing for the statue early this year.

“Linda Mahoney was just absolutely fabulous. She was the one who brought this to our attention … Religious groups, sororities, civil rights groups, Asian organizations, African-American organizations, immigration rights groups, [and] education groups all came together as a community in a consensus for this,” said Del. Lee. “Mahoney spearheaded the whole thing. She was just absolutely wonderful, tireless and relentless, she never gave up.”

With the help of those distinct organizations, especially that of Equal Visibility Everywhere (EVE), a group dedicated to achieving gender parity in the symbols and icons of the United States, and support from Del. Lee, Sen. Catherine Pugh (D-Baltimore), and the entire Maryland Women’s Legislative Caucus, the bill to place a statue of Tubman in the U.S. Capitol—though not in Statuary Hall—passed in April.

Mahoney, who worked on this project while juggling her full-time position with Ernst & Young and separate assignments for Maryland NOW, was thrilled to hear the news.

“In part I was not only, I guess, ecstatic, but I was also relieved because over time it’s harder and harder to dedicate the focus and to keep the communication going,” said Mahoney. “I was really trying to do my other volunteer job as president of NOW. It was, at times, pretty daunting in terms of energy level and lack of sleep.”

According to Del. Lee, however, the job is still not complete. Once the project has been authorized by Congress, they can start raising funds, through private donations and nonprofit organizations, for the sculptor and the statue.

 

Top 10 (#10) Ephonia Green: A Fairy Godmother for Military Brides

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Originally published in the DC Spotlight: http://www.dcspotlight.com/features/limelight/top-10-10-ephonia-green-a-fairy-godmother-for-military-brides/

Most brides-to-be fantasize about their wedding gowns. But for many military brides, the lustrous dresses that should put the finishing touch on their fairytale weddings will never leave the racks of their local bridal shops. Ephonia Green of Prince George’s County hopes to change that.

Green is the owner of Couture Miss Bridal & Formal, a full-service bridal boutique located in downtown Upper Marlboro. For five years, Green and her team have been giving away wedding dresses to active-duty military personnel and their fiancées.

“They give to us, and, you know, when you’re getting married … that’s that dream,” Green said. We “just [want] to help with some of the expense and the cost.”

The giveaway is part of a program called Brides Across America, a national charitable organization that unites military brides and bridal shops across the country in an effort to help troops and their families achieve their wedding dreams. Through Brides Across America, Green has given away 275 wedding gowns to military brides.

Crystal Wesby, whose now-husband served in the military, received her wedding gown through Brides Across America and Couture Miss Bridal & Formal in 2011.

“I would recommend for anyone … either their fiancées or themselves who are in the military, to go in and do it,” said Wesby. “It’s so easy and it’s a great experience.”

In order to participate in the Brides Across America wedding gown giveaway, brides-to-be must be engaged, or have had a civil ceremony, and be expecting to wed within the next 18 months. They or their fiancés must have been deployed in the past five years, and they should not have had a prior formal wedding. If the bride-to-be meets those criteria, her next step is to register with Brides Across America online, which will then connect her with a participating bridal boutique.

Couture Miss Bridal & Formal offers a varied selection with well-known designer brands like Enzoani, Casa Blanca, Impressions, LaSposa and many more, along with various other private label merchandises.

“We actually have such a variety of gowns and sizes, we haven’t had a problem servicing anyone at all,” Green said.

In 2000, Green bought her own wedding gown from Couture Miss Bridal & Formal, which was then called Country Miss Bridal & Formal. After working as an employee for the boutique, Green became the owner of the shop in 2008.

The 30-year family-owned and -operated bridal shop assists future brides in finding their wedding gowns, helps to coordinate a look for the wedding party, and also offers on-site alterations and gown preservation.

Green plans to continue participating with Brides Across America and the bridal gown giveaways. In the future, she’d also like to provide military discounts on headpieces, shoes, and other accessories during the annual event, which kicks off every July.

Jacqueline Pelt: Hometown girl takes Congress to the community

Originally published in the DC Spotlight: http://www.dcspotlight.com/features/metro-link/top-10-3-jacqueline-pelt-hometown-girl-takes-congress-to-the-community/

Political acumen, diligence and time-management are all important qualities to possess when running a local campaign. Luckily for Congresswoman Eleanor Holmes Norton (D-DC), she has a skilled and hard-working campaign coordinator whose passion for helping her community enables her to meet each of these standards.

Meet Jacqueline Pelt.

In 2009, after retiring from a 34-year career with the Internal Revenue Services, Pelt began working for Rep. Norton. The born-and-raised Washingtonian started off as a volunteer, offering her assistance at Norton’s free one-day Annual Tax and Financial Services Fair. The fair, which provides free tax-preparation services for D.C.’s low- and moderate-income residents, is where Norton first noticed Pelt’s character, expertise, and work ethic.

“Once she found out I was retired, that kind of made me perfect for the position,” said 59-year-old Pelt.

Since then, Pelt has been staying busy fundraising, scheduling events, and tackling smaller day-to-day developments.

“It’s a lot of little things you have to stay on top of when you’re managing a campaign,” Pelt said. “The worst part, I would say, would be meeting deadlines, but I manage to get it done.”

However, Pelt’s job is not all sweat and grind. Being Norton’s campaign coordinator has brought her some remarkable moments.

“The best part [of the job] would be attending a lot of events, meeting a lot of people, and networking,” said Pelt. “My favorite memory was attending … a town hall meeting. [I was] sitting behind the president on-stage. That was just indescribable … It was on CNN so my family got to watch me. It was just electrifying.”

For Pelt, an additional advantage of working for Norton is the satisfaction she receives from helping the District’s underprivileged. Even if she weren’t running the campaign, Pelt would still want to serve the general public.

“I would be doing more training for volunteers to assist the needy with the free income tax service. I’m passionate about that because it’s a service … that low-income residents of the District really, really appreciate. When you can provide a free service and the recipient of that service appreciates it, it feels good,” said Pelt. “[People] have to be trained specifically for this … and that’s one of my passions. When I have free time, I look to have more students trained, so I can help more people.”

 

2012 London Olympics Highlights

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Originally published in the DC Spotlight: http://www.dcspotlight.com/featured/2012-london-olympics-updates/

Friday’s London Olympics opening ceremony drew in 40.7 million viewers, making it the most-watched Summer Games opening ceremony ever. With fireworks lighting up the sky, the ceremony welcomed the finest athletes from more than 200 countries, and for the first time in history, women were represented on each nation’s team.

Now four days into the 30th Olympic games, Team USA is currently first in the medal count, tied with China. Both nations have collected 17 medals in total. China has nine gold, five silver, and three bronze, while the U.S. has five gold, seven silver, and five bronze. Japan sits in third with one gold, four silver and six bronze.

The U.S. started celebrating early on Saturday, thanks to the men’s archery victory. The team brought in the U.S.’s first medals at the Lord’s Cricket Ground. They took home the silver in a tight final against Italy, losing the gold by only a single point.

Ryan Lochte picked up America’s first gold medal. He shocked the world, and himself, by defeating rival and Maryland-born swimmer Michael Phelps in the Men’s 400m individual medley Saturday. Phelps, who came in fourth place, failed to medal for the first time since the Sydney Games in 2000. The two men will see each other again in the Men’s 200m individual medley.

World champion gymnast Jordyn Wieber failed to qualify for the Olympic all-around finals due to a rule that limits each nation to just two finalists. Wieber, 17, wound up in fourth place overall, but was third behind Aly Raisman and Gabby Douglas for the U.S.

Kim Rhode broke records on Sunday, becoming the first American to win individual medals in five straight Olympics. Rhode won the women’s skeet shooting with 99 points– meaning she missed one of 100 shots. Silver-medalist Wei Ning of China was eight points behind Rhode, and Slovakia’s Danka Bartekova, who earned the bronze medal, was nine points off.

American swimmer Dana Vollmer also made history Sunday. Vollmer broke the 100m butterfly world record, finishing in a time of 55.98 seconds. The 24-year-old New York native earned the gold medal despite losing her swimming cap midway through the race.

On Monday, it was the men who were breaking records. American swimmer Matt Grevers took the gold medal for the men’s 100m backstroke, setting an Olympic record of 52.16 seconds. Behind the 27-year-old Illinois native was American Nick Thoman, who came through in 52.92 seconds. Japan’s Ryosuke Irie received the bronze medal with his 52.97-second backstroke.

In other news, patriotism and religious esteem have made its way into the coiffures of this year’s women competitors. Three-time Olympic champion Venus Williams showed up to London with long braids twisted together with red, white, and blue strands. Meanwhile, Wojdan Ali Seraj Abdulrahim Shahrkhani, one of Saudi Arabia’s first two female Olympians, said she wouldn’t compete in the judo competition if she wasn’t allowed to wear her hijab. Though judo officials originally refused her request, International Judo Federation spokesman Nicolas Messner said Monday that she would compete.

Top Medal Winners as of 7/30/12
1. China
2. United States
3. Japan
4. Italy
5. France
6. South Korea
7. Russia
8. North Korea
9. Australia
10. Romania
 

The Black Church: How same-sex marriage threatens Obama’s re-election

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Originally published in the DC Spotlight: http://www.dcspotlight.com/features/living-the-life/the-black-church-how-same-sex-marriage-threatens-obamas-re-election/

In May, President Barack Obama caught the nation off guard when he announced his support for same-sex marriage. But no group has had more qualms over his historic decision than the black churches that, until now, have overwhelmingly supported the president.

Though scores of African-American pastors and Christian leaders have allied with the president, many of which find his decision threatening their faith, some contend that Obama’s decision is a direct contradiction to God’s word. Others agree with the president, citing the Golden Rule of the Christian faith as “[treating] others the way you would want to be treated.” Though still a number of leaders, whether embarrassed, undecided or uninterested in the topic, remain silent.

Promptly after the president’s announcement, the National Association for the Advancement of Colored People supported his decision by releasing a resolution advocating marriage equality. All but two of the organization’s board members, who include many religious leaders, backed the resolution.

“Civil marriage is a civil right and a matter of civil law,” NAACP President Benjamin Jealous said in a statement. “The NAACP’s support for marriage equality is deeply rooted in the Fourteenth Amendment of the United States Constitution and equal protection of all people.”

But Reverend Anthony Evans, president of the National Black Church Initiative (NBCI), disagrees with President Obama and the NAACP.

“The NAACP is wrong by categorizing that [marriage]. It is not a civil right; it is a privilege and it is sanctioned by the church and blessed by the church,” Evans said. “[They’re in the] same position the president is in—nobody appointed them to the word. There is nothing in biblical, church or modern literature as marriage equality. It has no validity, so whoever argues this, made up words and the church will have none of that.”

Evans believes the president is asking the church to ignore God’s commandments. He said that the president’s endorsement of same-sex marriage violates his Christianity, because as a Christian, he is supposed to obey the teachings of the church.

“He is theologically out of bound. We are going to have to sanction the president if he continues to go down this path,” Evans said.

The NBCI, a faith-based coalition of 34,000 African-American and Latino churches comprised of 15 denominations, has already taken steps to excommunicate the NAACP and all church leaders who participate with the civil rights organization.

“By the end of 2013, there will be no more meetings by the NAACP in black churches. Most clergy who support biblical marriage will turn in their membership [to the NAACP] directed by me,” Evans said. “If you are a Christian, you can’t be a member of the NAACP. You cannot have two masters. It’s church tradition or world tradition. We’re giving them enough time to decide to turn in their membership.”

Eric Wingerter, vice president for communications for the NAACP, said he could not comment on the NBCI’s announcement because he was unaware of its undertakings and unfamiliar with the organization’s involvement with the NAACP.

But not all black churches are united in their opposition to marriage equality. In 2009, more than 100 clergy, mostly African-Americans, gathered in Washington, D.C. to support same-sex marriage. Reverend Dennis W. Wiley, who hosted the pro-gay marriage rally, has been very vocal about his thoughts on marriage equality. Wiley, a contributing writer for the Washington Post’s faith leader network, recently wrote a piece applauding President Obama’s pronouncement. “If we are to live with each other, and in accordance with a God of love, justice, freedom and equality, then we, like our president, must continue to evolve,” said Wiley, who pastors at the Covenant Baptist United Church of Christ in Maryland.

According to a recent Pew Research survey, the nation’s acceptance of same-sex marriage has grown in the last four years. One survey found that 47 percent of Americans now favor allowing gay marriage, up from 39 percent in 2008, while 43 percent of Americans opposed allowing gay marriage, down from 51 percent in 2008.

For African-Americans — especially those of evangelical faith — deeply held religious objections to homosexuality has made Obama’s stance more difficult to embrace. An October 2011 Pew Research poll found that 62 percent of African-American Protestants opposed same-sex marriage, while 54 percent of white mainline Protestants supported it.

North Carolina’s constitutional ban on same-sex marriage can be largely attributed to anti-gay marriage efforts made by black church leaders like Reverend Patrick Wooden, who led rallies advocating for the controversial Amendment One. And after President Obama announced his support of same-sex marriage, the Coalition of African American Pastors began gathering signatures on a marriage pledge that has already been signed by more than 1,000 African-American clergy and Christians.

Still, there is not a monolithic African-American vote on the issue. According to a Pew Research poll released in April, the proportion of African-Americans favoring gay marriage has increased. The poll found that 39 percent of blacks favor gay marriage compared to just 26 percent in 2008, while opposition has fallen from 63 percent in 2008 to 49 percent today.

Maryland Delegate Anne Kaiser, who is openly lesbian, represents Montgomery County’s 14th District and believes that number will continue to swell as leaders of the African-American community consistently voice their support for same-sex marriage.

“People get a lot of their advice or insights on different issues … in church, and at these mega churches, some of these pastors will be talking against [marriage equality],” said Kaiser. “But we have civil rights heroes like John Lewis in the Congress who led the freedom march and Julian Bond and now the current president of the NAACP Ben Jealous all speaking out in favor…of marriage equality so there are certainly many civil rights icons from the African-American community who are very supportive of this issue.”

Kaiser contends that many evangelical families will become more comfortable with gay marriage as they begin to speak about the issue with their children.

“The younger generation is far more supportive than middle-aged people or older people, and I know from statistics, for example, that evangelical kids under 25 support marriage equality,” Kaiser said. “I do think that these dinnertime conversations will in a lot of cases be the teenagers and those in their younger 20s asking their parents and their grandparents what the big deal is. So people may be hearing one thing in church, but I think they’re hearing something else, of course from the president and I think from these conversations from the community and at home.”

Some churches, like the Shiloh Baptist Church led by Reverend Lee A. Earl, have chosen not to discuss politics at all. Though the Obama for America campaign has opened an office in the church building in Alexandria, Virginia, Associate Pastor of Fellowship Danielle Bridgeforth maintains that it’s not promoting or opposing President Obama’s reelection or his position on same-sex marriage.

“[That’s] property that we own, but that we’re leasing,” said Bridgeforth. “That’s not a church facility. By us leasing it to them, we’re not making any political statement…they’re paying market price.”

An African-American woman leaving the church on Sunday, who spoke on condition of anonymity, also offered an indifferent opinion of Obama’s endorsement of gay marriage saying, “I think it’s up to the individual [to decide].”

Though many black churches such as the Shiloh Baptist Church remain uninvolved in the national debate on gay marriage, most feel strongly about it—some for it, others against it. But almost all agree that black church leaders and members will not stay home on Election Day.

“We fought. We have a history of blood surrounding our vote, so we’re going to vote. That doesn’t mean we have to support [gay marriage], we can skip that question and we can vote on every other issue on the ballot,” said Evans. “In Maryland, what we are going to do is pull the levy against gay marriage and ignore Mr. Obama. I’m not saying we’re going to vote against Obama, we’re saying that he does not support our stance.”

 

Travel Story: Chincoteague: A Relaxing Island Getaway with Scenic Pony Swims

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Just three hours from the bustle of Washington, D.C. is the scenic Chincoteague Island, a refreshing escape unlike any usual traveler’s getaway. Chincoteague, which sits off the coast of Virginia and just off the Maryland border, is Virginia’s only resort island. Every year, more than 1.4 million travelers savor the natural wonders of the island’s dunes, forests and marshes. But most tourists make their journey to goggle at the world-renowned Chincoteague ponies which actually inhabit the longer barrier island of Assateague.

Assateague Island, which lies on the eastern coast of both Virginia and Maryland, is just a walk or bike ride away from Chincoteague. It is here that the fanciful tale in Marguerite Henry’s 1947 book titled “Misty of Chincoteague” stirs into reality. Thousands of locals and tourists convene for a week-long carnival on the final days of every July.  Gobbling down their celebrated oyster sandwiches, visitors watch their children mount the carousel and delight in all the festivities leading up to the pony penning. Bystanders gaze into the waters watching Chincoteague’s “Saltwater Cowboys” herd about 150 ponies across the Assateague Channel during Wednesday’s Pony Swim. Children restlessly await Thursday, when the foals are auctioned and buyers have the opportunity to bring home their very own “Misty of Chincoteague.”

Things to Do
During the summer, visitors can roam the Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge and learn about the island’s rich wildlife and cultural history. Refuge employees or volunteers guide tourists on bird and marsh walks through photography hikes and beach camp fires, while also offering guests crabbing and surf fishing demonstrations.

Near the entrance to the Chincoteague National Wildlife Refuge, visitors can find the Museum of Chincoteague Island, formally known as the Oyster and Maritime Museum (CNWR). For 45 years, CNWR has been attracting audiences and sharing historic tales of seafaring legends, shipwrecks and chilling accounts of stranded seamen. Exhibits displaying ancient fossils and legendary images capture the story of Chincoteague’s oyster industry from the era when oysters were harvested with hand tools down to the development of the island’s aquaculture industry.

Today, knowledgeable captains take visitors around the inland waters of Chincoteague and Assateague where travelers can fish for flounder, sea trout, bluefish, croaker, kingfish and sea bass. These charter fishing boats also offer non-fishers a nature cruise, giving commuters a glance at the island’s native wild ponies, egrets, terns, osprey and many other dwellers.

Chincoteague Pony Swim and Auction
Although the pony swim and auction only occurs in July (July 25-27 in 2012), year-round, Chincoteague Pony Farm sells beautiful and healthy fillies and colts, offering families everywhere a piece of Chincoteague starting at $1,500.  For more information, visit http://www.chincoteague.com/pony_swim_guide.html.

Where to dine
Most recurring travelers boast on and regularly return to Bill’s Seafood Restaurant. Since 1960, Bill’s Seafood Restaurant has been serving seafoodhand-cut steaks and chops. Open all year, seven days a week, travelers can end their day of recreation with an evening of beer, cocktails or one of the restaurant’s international wines.  (http://www.billsseafoodrestaurant.com/)

Allergic to seafood? Don’t worry. Famous Pizza’s fresh homemade pizza, pastas, subs, salads and sandwiches keep families stuffed without a visit to the emergency room.  (http://www.famouspizzaci.com/)

Whether before a trip to the beach or following an evening meal, visitors have enjoyed family-owned and operated, Mister Whippy, for a cold, delectable treat. On a hot summer’s day, sundaes, shakes, banana splits, waffle cones or Mister Whippy’s famous cyclones can be very appealing.
(http://www.misterwhippy.com/)

Where to stay
Although most of the attractions are across the bridge at Assateague Island, visitors stay at hotels, bed and breakfasts and guest cottages throughout Chincoteague.

Hotels
America’s Best Value Inn and Suites  http://www.bestvalueinnva.com/
Chincoteague Inn Motel http://www.chincoteagueinn.com/

Bed and breakfasts
Cedar Gables Seaside Innhttp://www.cedargable.com/
The Watson House: http://www.watsonhouse.com/

Cottages
Eagle’s View Waterfront Rental http://www.bayfronthouse.com/